Breakup & Divorce Coaching
I’m Vicki, an accredited breakup and divorce coach. I help people facing separation, betrayal, or divorce find clarity, confidence, and a way forward — because I know from experience how painful and overwhelming this journey can be. You don’t have to face it alone.
I’m Vicki.
I'm a breakup and divorce coach. My journey to becoming a coach combines over 20 years of professional experience in the NHS with deeply personal insights gained from navigating my own separation and divorce.
What is breakup & divorce coaching?
It’s practical and emotional support for one of life’s toughest transitions. It’s not about legal advice or telling you what to do — it’s about helping you manage the overwhelm, make clear decisions, and take positive steps toward a future that feels hopeful.
"I don't think I can move on"
"Can I really recover from my partner's affair?"
"I feel like I’ll never be myself again."
"I don't think I can move on" "Can I really recover from my partner's affair?" "I feel like I’ll never be myself again."
"Everything feels uncertain and overwhelming."
"I feel stuck in the past and can’t move forward."
"Will I ever be able to trust again?"
"Everything feels uncertain and overwhelming." "I feel stuck in the past and can’t move forward." "Will I ever be able to trust again?"
I’m here to help.
Whether you're questioning your relationship, reeling from a betrayal, navigating divorce proceedings, or feeling stuck in the aftermath — I'm here to meet you where you are.
Together, we'll focus on healing from heartbreak, rediscovering your identity, and creating a path forward that feels authentic and hopeful.
Listen To The Podcast Episode
I spoke with Fiona Kimbell on the Divorced and Better Podcast about my journey through separation, the challenges of rebuilding after betrayal, and how coaching can help people move forward with strength and purpose. Listen to the conversation below.
What you want to know…
If you’ve never worked with a coach before, you might be wondering what it involves and how it works. These are some of the most common practical questions people ask me before we start.
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It’s practical and emotional support to help you navigate separation or divorce with more clarity and confidence. Coaching gives you tools, strategies, and space to process what’s happening so you can make decisions and take steps that feel right for you.
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Therapy often focuses on the past and healing old wounds. Coaching is more future-focused — it’s about where you are now, where you want to be, and how to move forward with confidence. Many people find coaching works really well alongside therapy.
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I offer different types of sessions depending on your needs, from one-off calls to in-depth sessions and ongoing support. Prices start at £80, and you can see the full breakdown on my pricing page.
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No — there’s no long-term commitment. Some people just want a single session to get clarity, while others prefer regular support. You can choose what works best for you.
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It’s a 20-minute, no-obligation chat where you can share a bit about your situation, ask me questions, and see whether coaching feels right for you. You don’t need to prepare anything — it’s completely informal.
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Both options are available. If you’re local to Surrey, we can meet in person, or we can connect via video call wherever you are in the UK (or beyond).
I’m still not sure…
No matter what stage you’re at, coaching can help you gain clarity and make well-informed decisions. If you’re feeling hesitant, you’re not alone.
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That’s very common. Coaching can help you gain clarity, explore your options, and feel more confident about making the right decision for you — whether your relationship continues or not.
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It’s never too late. Many people struggle months or even years after a breakup or divorce. Coaching can help you process what’s happened, rebuild your confidence, and start moving forward into a new chapter.
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Living with that uncertainty can feel overwhelming. Coaching gives you a safe, supportive space to process your feelings, think through your options, and protect your wellbeing — even if you don’t yet have all the answers.
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Friends and family care deeply for you, but they’re emotionally involved. Coaching gives you an objective, non-judgmental space with someone who understands what you’re going through and can help you find clarity and strategies to move forward.
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You don’t need to be “ready.” Coaching meets you exactly where you are, even in the rawest moments. Together, we’ll take things one step at a time, at your pace.
Book your free intro call
This is a relaxed, no-commitment chat where you can share a little about your situation and ask me any questions you have. I’ll also explain how coaching works and how I might be able to support you in taking positive steps forward. There’s no need to prepare — it’s completely informal, just a safe space to talk.